If you’re consistently calling, texting, emailing, and doing all the asking out, a man won’t have to lift a finger. This is not to say that you can’t ever reach out to a man you’re dating, but let him do the asking out–at least in the early stages. You deserve someone who wants to reach out to you, call you, and ask you out.
If you’re both interested in each other, there will be a natural balance in the amount of communication. As scary as it may seem to talk to your man about not seeing other people, it’s even scarier to just assume he isn’t seeing other people. As easy as it would be to base every opinion you have on an experience you had with a guy or listen to your best guy friend’s advice, not all men are the same.
Intuition is like a gift from the universe - so don't ignore the feeling in your gut that tells you something isn't right about the seemingly cool guy you just met.
Keep those eyes open and listen to your inner self.
You go out several times and then don't hear from him?
Instead of worrying and stressing over why - just assume it wasn't meant to be and move on.
We love the idea of writing down all of the qualities you are looking for - and releasing it to the universe!
Often we believe that a man will expect us to get physical from the get-go and that if we don’t, men will lose interest if it doesn’t happen right away. It’s not a deal breaker every time, but it does make the “getting to know you” part more complicated.Many of us have learned the hard way that this isn't necessarily true!Ask him what your status is and don't be afraid to express what you are looking for. If your date wants to go hiking or mountain bike riding, instead of thinking, "Oh no, he'll see me sweaty and gross," try to adopt the "Why not! We all grow from doing the things we are afraid to do.If you make a man your whole life, he’s going to lose interest because he will most likely feel smothered!
Remember, he fell in love with the dynamic “you” who has her own interests and passions who wanted to make him a part of your life, not the whole darn thing.
While you might think it cute to have three glasses of wine at dinner, he does not. If you need to loosen up before a date, watch a comedy right before you leave or take a walk. One guy told us that he went on a first date and his date wouldn’t order any food because she wasn’t “hungry.” But then every time he cut a piece of steak on his plate, she reached over and ate it!